Responsibilities

=Victim =

It's not easy when you are the victim of a bully. There are many strategies for victims to use to stop bullying when it is happening to them. Most of these strategies recommended that the victim should be assertive when standing up to the bully. Components for being assertive


 * Speak strongly and firmly ( tone of voice )
 * Face bully directly (body language)
 * Look straight into the bully's eye (eye contact)
 * Use appropriate language (good choice of word)
 * Don't stand to close or to far from the bully (proximity)
 * Have calm look to your face (facial expressions)

WHAT VICTIM SHOULD DO:


 * Say a teacher to see what is going on
 * Don't be scared of the bully
 * Don't let the bully take you advantage
 * Feel the same power as the bully is feeling
 * Talk with a psychologist to help you solve this problem
 * Be self-confident

<span style="color: #008000; font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Witnesses

<span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Everyone in school should most work together to stop bullying, and that includes students who are neither bullies nor victims. <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">In fact, the amount of bullying occurring in a school can actually be lessened depending on how students deal with it. You may be wondering who these other students are if they are not bullies or victims. They are the witnessesto bullying behavior, and may also be called "the caring majority," "bystanders," "helpers," or "onlookers."


 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Are always scared of when is going to be their turn to be a victim.
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Some of them are followers
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Most of them are just the extras, in fact they just see what is happening
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Others just follow the victim
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Stay quiet, be scared of saying something

<span style="color: #008000; font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">WHAT WITNESSES SHOULD DO:


 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Don't be scared of stopping the bully
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Say a teacher or an adult about this problem
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Don't be sacred
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Don't follow the bully


 * <span style="color: #008000; font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%; line-height: 23px;">Bully **

<span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Some bullies are looking for attention. Most of them are trying to make themselves feel more important. They might think bullying is a way to be popular, cool, accepted by others or to get what they want. It can make them feel bigger than everyone else and powerful. Bullies use to bully others because of several reasons


 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">How fast or slow they learn
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Their choice of lifestyle
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Being perceived as being too tall, too short, too unattractive, too thin, too overweight or too plain
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Their race or religion
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Where they live
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Who their parents are
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Their choice of clothing or hairstyle
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Who their friends are
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">The way they speak
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">The fact that they wear glasses or have braces
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">Their disabilities

<span style="color: #008000; font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">WHAT CAN BULLIES SHOULD DO:


 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">be caring with others
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">tolerate differences
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">be respectful with others
 * <span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS',cursive; font-size: 120%;">follow instructions